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A Lesson In Dating

Last Saturday was September 20, 2009.  Seemingly a perfectly normal date.  But not at the Singapore Botanic Gardens.  We’ve talked about this park before – it’s really amazing.  But this last weekend, it was more amazing than usual.

First, a quick lesson in date notation in Singapore.  You can read the long story, but the short story is that outside of the US and a few other countries, the common way to write the short form of the date is dd/mm/yyyy (instead of mm/dd/yyyy).  So, July 27, 1970 (a very special day) would be 27/07/1970.  You get the idea.  If you’re keeping up, then you probably just realized that last Sunday was day 20 of month 09 of year 2009.  Yep, you got it 20-09-2009.  Or 2009 2009.

Back to our story.  Right now, the Gardens are celebrating their 150th anniversary.  And last weekend was a three day weekend, due to the celebration of Hari Raya (side note: one of the things we love about Singapore is the thriving coexistence of Muslim, Hindu, Christian, and Buddhism/Taoism – all of them get their proper due in the national holidays here).  And above all, it was 2009 2009.  So all in all, one SPECIAL day here folks.  The Chinese are known as being a very superstitious people, and this moment in time was too good to pass up.

Kirsten happened to be at the Gardens this weekend with the kids and some friends, and came home commenting to me about how many brides she had seen.  Boy was she right.  There were more than 150 brides with their grooms in tow – 168 to be exact.  And they all got married in an hour.  If I’m doing my math right, that’s about 46 seconds per wedding.  Vegas would be proud!

You can check out BBCs full video story of the mass wedding here

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-Mark

Two Idols

(Editorial note: I’m not well versed in either Hinduism or Singapore history, so please accept my apologies for any inaccuracies or offenses below – they are completely unintentional.  I encourage you to follow some of the links below to learn more about these topics.)

The weekend of August 28th through the 30th was a packed weekend for us.  We started with our “21 Day Party” on Friday evening, which we’ll explain in another blog post.  The following picture represents some of the highlights of the rest of the weekend.  The figure on the left is a Hindu god named Ganesha, and the one on the right is the Merlion.

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On Saturday, we had an invite from Deepak Setty and his family for a traditional Indian vegetarian dinner.  Deepak is a colleague of mine at Microsoft.  He’s been in Singapore for the last several years with his family – Lalitha his wife, and their two boys Aditya and Drew (my apologies to the Setty family for what I would guess to be some misspellings).  Michel Gambier, my manager, and his wife Sylvie were also there.  It was cool to have my family meet the families of those close to me at work.  And the food, cooked by Lalitha and Deepak’s mother, was unbelievably good (and the food kept coming and coming – we we’re pretty full after that night).

But one of the real delights of the visit, was that they took us to an Indian temple.  The Setty’s are Hindu, and remarkably knowledgeable and open about their religion.  They took us to the local temple, called the Sri Siva Durga Temple.  Here’s a picture of the outside of the temple (we went Merlion it was dark, and the temple was even more dramatic and beautiful lit up in the nighttime).

So back to Ganesha, he is easily distinguished by his elephant head.  You pray to him to remove obstacles, in fact he is the first god you pray to when you enter the temple.  We actually got to tour the whole temple, and participate in several of the rituals.  We got the red dots placed on our foreheads by the priests, we drank holy water, we received flower petals, and learned an immense amount.  Hinduism has many gods, like Ganesha, each with a detailed history and sometimes many many names (it can even be hundreds).  The richness of the religion is really staggering.

The Setty’s were amazing hosts, and they finished by placing a jewel in the middle of Kirsten’s forehead, and giving the rosewood-carved Ganesha figure above – as you can see a beautiful piece proudly displayed in our apartment.

That was Saturday.  On Sunday it rained, but we had some good indoor fun at Lilliputt (which Jackson told your about here), and afterwards went to Mustafa Center in Little India.  Mustafa’s is a department store, but likely one unlike you’ve ever seen.  The place is truly amazing, even overwhelming.  It’s not just the amount of stuff they cover (televisions, watches, clothing, food, office supplies, books, furniture, household items, etc. etc. etc.), it’s the amount.  For example, Jackson counted 29 aisles of candy alone.  This place puts Target to shame.

Back to the Merlion – Jackson found this statue at Mustafa’s and really wanted to buy it.  The Merlion is one of Singapore’s national symbols, and the most famous one is at the head of the Singapore river, right down by my office.  In fact, the picture at the header of our blog is a picture of that Merlion.

Great weekend.  That’s all for now.

-Mark and Jackson